I wanted to go out for my birthday this weekend. I planned to do something with my husband on Saturday since we def. have a babysitter and hardly get adult alone time. I also wanted to do a Girl's only night Friday at a local bar. Apparently this is grounds for my DH to tell me that if I go Friday, I should not plan on coming back. I hardly ever get to go out because I am in (2) graduate programs and the rest of the time I'm not doing school related stuff, I am spending time with my daughter and DH.
He reasons that it is selfish of me to want to go somewhere without him and dangerous to go to a bar (that is a block away from my friend's house where we would stay the night) without him or another guy to make sure I don't get assaulted. I see this as a control issue or that he doesn't trust me for some reason.
Anyone else think DH has been visiting Crazy town or am I not seeing both sides?
*FYI* I could totally stay with my friends if he really wanted to be serious about his threat.