Why do people have a hard time saying no and standing up for themselves?
I know so many people who can't say no, or stand up for themselves. They can't say no to overbearing know it all mother in laws. They can't put their foot down with husbands and partners. They can't stop people interfering in their lives.
I have no problem saying no, I have no problem saying f off or butt out. My life, my child I will do it my way.
Maybe I'm just wired to be bluntly honest. I don't know many who are wired to stand up for themselves and stop people interfering in their lives. My mother in law is pretty great, but sometimes I have to say no it's not okay. My son has rules in our house, that follow into her house and everyone else's house. He's not allowed to do something in our house, but she says *he's okay he's fine he can do that * i have no trouble saying no he can't. He's not allowed..
. I am a first time mom and I like to keep an eye on my son and if he goes somewhere in her house and I'm follow him, she tells me he is okay he will be fine. I had to say I like to see that he is okay. the house isn't MY child proof so I want to make sure. My mom likes to say stop spoiling my son, he is about to turn one and he is our one and only because I can't have anymore. I said I will be spoiling him. I've had to say butt out. I waited 20yrs to be a mom, I'm not letting ANYONE tell me what I can and can't do with my own son. I have my own parenting aways and how I parent my son is my choice. Butt out.
Anyone else out there have no trouble saying butt out? Or do you have trouble saying butt out? lol.