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I guess I used to be a stripper?

Posted by on Jun. 21, 2014 at 9:28 PM
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Ex bf and I broke up a few months ago. I recently befriended an old friend of his. She is a really nice girl and we have so much in common so we talk quite a lot. Well she texted me the other day and asked if ex bf's mom and I get along. We don't. Its a mutual feeling. The woman is just a bit off her rocker and made my life hell for the 3 years her son and I were together but I'm big on respecting my elders so I try to not speak ill of her. I told my friend that we have a mutual distaste for each other. Well my friend used to be very close with ex's mom and I guess when ex bf and I first got together ex's mom told my friend that I used to strip just to give ex bf money! I couldn't help but laugh because anyone that knows me, knows I would NEVER do anything of the sort. Anyone else have to deal with crazies like this?
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TheCupcakeMom
by Member on Jun. 21, 2014 at 10:59 PM
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HAHAHA. This makes me laugh.

My ex husbands new wife has made several claims about me like this over the years.... they cheated and he left me for her but of course I was somehow always the bad guy... anyways

once she called CPS on me saying I was a drunk (I literally do not drink by the way), that my daughter had no clothes (I work in retail and the girl has more clothes than any kid I know)... and CPS came and looked for alcohol in my house and there was literally NOTHING and the CPS guy just laughed and was like okay.... clearly your not an alcholic. Then he looked at my daughter's room and started laughing when he saw just how many clothes she had and then was like "okay I think we are done here, you clearly just pissed someone off".....

she also told family I was a hooker at one point. And I literally am nothing close. I don't drink, never did drugs, always worked 40+ hours in a high position at work... .I was like the poster child for good single moms so the whole thing looking back is hilarious.

When my husband and I started dating, they even tried to contact him and tell him all these things and he had seen my home, met my daughter, we had been dating for months and he never saw me drink or anything and suprisingly he thought the whole thing was reallly funny because it was all so far fetched lies.

AllAboutAmaya
by Member on Jun. 22, 2014 at 9:52 AM
Its amazing the extent some people will go to just to soil your name all because they don't like you!

Quoting TheCupcakeMom:

HAHAHA. This makes me laugh.

My ex husbands new wife has made several claims about me like this over the years.... they cheated and he left me for her but of course I was somehow always the bad guy... anyways

once she called CPS on me saying I was a drunk (I literally do not drink by the way), that my daughter had no clothes (I work in retail and the girl has more clothes than any kid I know)... and CPS came and looked for alcohol in my house and there was literally NOTHING and the CPS guy just laughed and was like okay.... clearly your not an alcholic. Then he looked at my daughter's room and started laughing when he saw just how many clothes she had and then was like "okay I think we are done here, you clearly just pissed someone off".....

she also told family I was a hooker at one point. And I literally am nothing close. I don't drink, never did drugs, always worked 40+ hours in a high position at work... .I was like the poster child for good single moms so the whole thing looking back is hilarious.

When my husband and I started dating, they even tried to contact him and tell him all these things and he had seen my home, met my daughter, we had been dating for months and he never saw me drink or anything and suprisingly he thought the whole thing was reallly funny because it was all so far fetched lies.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Jun. 22, 2014 at 2:37 PM

Even if you were a stripper, or a go-go dancer, so what? You're not having sex with men! Some people are so damn judgmental. His mother sounds nuts! Perhaps she is just jealous.

AllAboutAmaya
by Member on Jun. 22, 2014 at 3:24 PM
She is! She acts like he is her boyfriend instead of her son. Its actually kind of creepy.

Quoting Anonymous:

Even if you were a stripper, or a go-go dancer, so what? You're not having sex with men! Some people are so damn judgmental. His mother sounds nuts! Perhaps she is just jealous.

katemckenzie
by Banana Hands on Jun. 23, 2014 at 12:24 PM
Lol! If you ask BM, I used to do pornos. Ick. But she goes around telling people that I had sex on camera for money.

Granted, when I modeled before I had DS, I did a few photo shoots that were nude, but nothing distasteful oor sexual. She takes this as an indication that I MUST have done porn as well.
Which is hilarious because she even did a few nude photo shoots, and hers were way more sexual than anything I ever posed for.
AllAboutAmaya
by Member on Jun. 23, 2014 at 12:53 PM

II hope if I ever have a son I don't act like that! I'm sure she's made up more lies and went around town telling whoever would listen. She's even lied to me about her son before just to cause problems between us. Its quite sad really. She's 40years old and single. Hmmm I wonder why!?

Quoting katemckenzie: Lol! If you ask BM, I used to do pornos. Ick. But she goes around telling people that I had sex on camera for money. Granted, when I modeled before I had DS, I did a few photo shoots that were nude, but nothing distasteful oor sexual. She takes this as an indication that I MUST have done porn as well. Which is hilarious because she even did a few nude photo shoots, and hers were way more sexual than anything I ever posed for.


rockinmomto2
by Member on Jun. 24, 2014 at 5:00 PM

My mother in law convinced her entire family that mine and DHs oldest daughter isn't his and that I cheated on him. Thanks to her, most of them hated me for a long time and made our marriage miserable.

AllAboutAmaya
by Member on Jun. 24, 2014 at 5:08 PM

That is horrible! I think its a Mama Bear thing. Maybe they think we aren't good enough for their sons (with no good reason) so they have to make up stories to try and make other people dislike us or make us look bad. It really is pathetic.

Quoting rockinmomto2:

My mother in law convinced her entire family that mine and DHs oldest daughter isn't his and that I cheated on him. Thanks to her, most of them hated me for a long time and made our marriage miserable.


rockinmomto2
by Member on Jun. 24, 2014 at 6:21 PM

That's pretty much it. Thankfully, DHs grandmother finally saw through her bullshit as did his grandfather (they're divorced, so that's an important distinction), but any time we want to go see them, his mother is always around. It's pretty fucked up, and it's been 10 years.

Quoting AllAboutAmaya:

That is horrible! I think its a Mama Bear thing. Maybe they think we aren't good enough for their sons (with no good reason) so they have to make up stories to try and make other people dislike us or make us look bad. It really is pathetic.

Quoting rockinmomto2:

My mother in law convinced her entire family that mine and DHs oldest daughter isn't his and that I cheated on him. Thanks to her, most of them hated me for a long time and made our marriage miserable.



Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jun. 24, 2014 at 6:26 PM
My own sister acted like this when I got with my now dh. We were friends before we got together, I was 19 at the time and my sis was 15, I moved back home to get out of an abusive relationship. My ex didn't know where my mom lived and my sis gave him directions to our house because she knew it would cause drama. She also reported every little thing me and dh did together to his ex so she was calling him and me wanting to know what we were doing, since me sis told her we were having sex and all (we weren't at that point) but she acted like I was her friend and shouldn't even have been hanging out with dh. It eventually came out that my sis had a huge crush on dh and was thinking that if she could keep us from getting together he would get with her. I tried explaining to her how abusive my ex was and that her letting him know where I was staying was grossly wrong of her. Sooo much drama was created from her at that time.
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