Let's see, I haven't had a real job since right before I had my first kid.
I now have two kids and am 26 yrs old and have not had a real job due to daycare costs and whatnot... It didn't make sense to put all of my paycheck into daycare.
Anyway, I am a licensed hairdresser and I have done hair on the side for 7 years while I am a sahm.
We moved to a different state about a year ago and I started the paperwork to transfer my hair license.
Since my youngest is starting pre k next month, I will be able to work.
Well that has been 8 months of hell trying to get paperwork transferred and approved.
Slow process, but I should finally be getting my license in a few weeks and will start applying at salons.
My dh has berated me about how I don't know anything about the real world because I have been a sahm for the last 7 years....
(And he told me to stay home with the kids to begin with so.....)
At 5am he decided to inform me he can't wait for me to lose my job because I will most likely get fired right away since I haven't had a real job in fucking years. Gee thanks...
Yes I am excited and nervous about starting work but for fucks sake why do I have to be belittled about it every fucking day.
Idk why I'm anon. My s/n is liisawith2eyes
I confronted him about it, he had no memory of it, now I wonder if he is the one that is stupid?
Anyways, after I let out my thoughts on the matter we discussed it. I had kept it bottled up since that one morning and I was fuming.
He changed his demeanor and we discussed me working.
Currently, we are staying in the basement apartment of his brother and sister in law to save for a house so I can't just kick him out. Things we're tense so we had a family meeting and hashed things out.
My dh said he thinks it will be an adjustment but it will be financially easier when I have a job and will speed things up to getting us on the path to homeownership.
Thank you again for all your support ladies.