So how many people send invitations to blood family members. (ex: your sister or brother)
My daughter's first birthday party is coming up and I told my sister the time and date (even thou she says I didn't) but she said since I didn't send her and her 3 kids a invitation by mail that I didn't invite them and they won't be coming.
I told her I shouldn't have to send you an invite because you're my sister. You're automatically invited.She however doesn't see it that way and feels she's not invited. We have never sent invites to each other for anything before and just call and let the other person know what's going on. Or there have been times when I called her and asked her if she was doing anything for her kids birthday when it's around that time.
I was letting my other sister know what's going on and she agrees with me, saying it's stupid to send her an invite. And my other sister said "well did she invite you to the birthday party she's planning for her daughter?" I said "no" and she said "see there you go, now you can bring that up to her." (Her daughter's birthday is one week before my daughter's birthday) so it's not like she didn't know it was coming up and she could have called me and asked if I was doing anything.
Now she's gonna tell her kids I didn't invite them to the party and their gonna come crying to me about why I didn't invite them.
And when I was still pregnant I didn't send her an invite to my baby shower but she still came to that.
Was I wrong for not making her an invite?