My sister gave these kids no time to grieve and kinda just forced this new guy on them. DH and I managed to get her a apt in our town and helped her move. This guy is coming to visit this weekend and she says he has had some light bulbs go off in his head. She is going to tell the kids to just wipe the slate clean and give this guy another chance.
He has tortured these kids! He hit the oldest and degraded the preteen. He made all of them afraid to even talk to their baby brother yet expected to hem to care for him constantly. My sister needs to learn to stand on her own two feet.
The preteen was crying and telling me her Dad wouldn't have died if she would have been there. My sister responded to this by saying she felt a lot of guilt too because if it wouldn't have been the preteens bday she might have got him to the ER sooner. She has even said that this kid only cries about her Dad when it's convenient. ...WTF?!!!
If she gets back with this ahole I feel like I will just hafta walk away. I love these kids so much...but I have my own little one. I just keep thinking how selfish can she be? I will tell the kids they can call me whenever they want/need to, but I can't keep being sucked in. My heart is breaking.