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Why not adoption?

Anonymous
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I don't understand why there are women who will abort their baby, killing it, because they will not consider adoption.  There are so many families and couples who would do anything to have a baby, isn't it easier to consider someone else caring for your child than for that baby to never grow up?

Posted by Anonymous on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:17 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:20 AM
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There are so many kids already in the system that they need to adopt.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:23 AM
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so unborn babies deserve to die? and even though there are so many kids lots of people who want to adopt really want a newborn.

Quoting Anonymous: There are so many kids already in the system that they need to adopt.


katydid150
by Member on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:35 AM
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Many women cannot afford to be out of work for 6 weeks to 2 months post-partum to recover from birth. 

Also, it is a woman's right not to incubate a fetus and go through birth (risking complications and even death). 

A woman should not be punished due to the fact that she had sex and her BC failed or she mistimed her cycle. 

J.M.O.
by Member on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:38 AM
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It's not for YOU to understand. It's not your decision or uterus. How many unwanted babies have you adopted?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:38 AM
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No they don't. I'm against abortion as well but your argument is stupid. You also do realize that there are a lot of babies in the system as well right? Those people need to stop being fucking picky.

Quoting Anonymous:

so unborn babies deserve to die? and even though there are so many kids lots of people who want to adopt really want a newborn.

Quoting Anonymous: There are so many kids already in the system that they need to adopt.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:38 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:38 AM
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There are already more than plenty of children, of all ages, races, ethnicities and locales that need to be adopted. I do not need  or want to be an incubator for one more to add to the list.  

shorty00207450
by on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:40 AM
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some people are selfish


thefiregoddess
by Bronze Member on Jul. 13, 2014 at 1:41 AM
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This.

Adopt the children already waiting for homes and mind your own uterus.


Quoting J.M.O.: It's not for YOU to understand. It's not your decision or uterus. How many unwanted babies have you adopted?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 5 on Jul. 13, 2014 at 4:29 AM
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Sometimes  women  are in abusive  marriages  or relationships  and  don't  want  the tie that  binds.  Other times they  know  if they try to give the baby  up  for adoption  because they truly  want  no  part of it  the birth   father   may  insist  on   taking  it  and they  want  no ties  to him  whatsoever.  They  may  want  to move on with their  life  without  having  to worry  he  will tell the  kid  who  she  is and the  kid would want to meet  her  and  she  wants no  part of that.  If the child is a product  of  rape or incest she  may  not  even  want  the  child  growing  in  her  for a single minute.  No reminders  and no  chance  of the child  looking  her up  20  years  down the road.

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