Feeling smothered and frustrated

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Some guys do that because they are doing something wrong. Tell him to back off a bit.

please, please consider where this is going. There have been so many posts on this site about relationships starting like this, escalating to being controlling and jealous - supsicious of everyone and isolating the gal. This is the path to abuse. It is not normal courtship or "making you happy" This is someone obsessing over imaginary rivals.
Your gut is telling you this is wrong. Trust your self and walk away.

Get rid of him NOW. Tell him you don't like the jealousy and him questioning you. That is not how you want to be LOVED. I had a guy like this once. NOT GOOD. This can turn into abuse and drama FAST.

Quoting MonarchMom22:please, please consider where this is going. There have been so many posts on this site about relationships starting like this, escalating to being controlling and jealous - supsicious of everyone and isolating the gal. This is the path to abuse. It is not normal courtship or "making you happy" This is someone obsessing over imaginary rivals.
Your gut is telling you this is wrong. Trust your self and walk away.