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I get mad as hell about DH watching porn

Anonymous
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I hate porn; Even advertising has become soft porn. I hate that dh watches it. He falls asleep on the couch every night watching tv. Or looking at YouTube videos. He gets in the bed between 3-6 AM. When he's on my shit list, I don't have sex with him when he asks me. he takes the opportunity to look at porn.

I looked at his phone web history and it was porn and YouTube twerk videos throughout the history log. I got so upset about it that I cursed him out about it and got out of the bed when he laid down this morning.
Posted by Anonymous on Aug. 3, 2014 at 10:41 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 3, 2014 at 10:44 AM
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honestly, Id do the same
sorry youre having a rough time
Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Aug. 3, 2014 at 10:44 AM
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You can't change anyone other than yourself. NOW, I'm not telling you to change who you are, I also hate the sex industry. I hate what it does to people, all of the back scenes shit that people forget about while they're trying to beat their meat. I found a guy who shares my views on the topic, it made life easy for me. You chose a man who seems to enjoy doing nothing all night but look at other women. He's not going to change, no amount of yelling will ever do you any good. You either deal with what he does or let him go. Find a man in the future who is more compatible.

SissySmurf
by Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:11 PM
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The only time it would bother me that my SO watches porn (which, he's not big on it so it doesn't really apply to me but anyway...) is if he watched it INSTEAD of being intimiate with me. It sounds like your hubby watches it when you don't have sex with him.. Does he have an over-active sex drive? Either way, if he knows it's bothering you that he watches it constantly, he needs to slow it down a bit and take your feelings into consideration. Cousling may do the trick - you could get to the bottom of why he insists on watching it constantly. 

I can get where you're aggravated tho'.. He lays on the couch and watches porn instead of coming to bed at night, where he belongs. What's he say to ya when you object or you try to talk to him about it? 

applesnbananas
by Bronze Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:15 PM
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My DH used to be obsessed with porn.... Until I busted him cheating. He has now broken free of the prim addiction and knows it is what caused him to stray. Porn has no place in a marriage. My husband has been porn free for 5 years. Your husband can be too.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:36 PM
Thank you for commenting. Some people have the logic that if it's a person on a page or a screen it's ok because you're not talking to or touching but it leaves you unsatisfied with a real person. You're right it doesn't have a place in marriage.

That's so wonderful that your husband grew up and became a man. Seems a person only gets free when they see that it's a problem and decides to stop.

Quoting applesnbananas: My DH used to be obsessed with porn.... Until I busted him cheating. He has now broken free of the prim addiction and knows it is what caused him to stray. Porn has no place in a marriage. My husband has been porn free for 5 years. Your husband can be too.
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:37 PM
I think most people would get mad about it. No matter how much they say it wouldn't bother them

Quoting Anonymous: honestly, Id do the same
sorry youre having a rough time
katnjake
by Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:38 PM
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Are you really that insecure that porn bothers you that much? It's porn, get over it. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:41 PM
I agree. I split up with my sons father bc of it.

Quoting Anonymous: I think most people would get mad about it. No matter how much they say it wouldn't bother them

Quoting Anonymous: honestly, Id do the same
sorry youre having a rough time
Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:42 PM
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We fought over porn for 5 years...after we seperated for 6 months he slowed down alot and I don't make his life a living hell when he looks now days. I just had to get passed my own insecurities. He has never cheated on me so it doesn't cause any negative effects as far as that's concerned.
MariannLws
by Member on Aug. 3, 2014 at 12:42 PM

I don't really see an issue with porn watching. 

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