So my grandma passed away Tuesday the 5th and we put her to rest on Monday. Ever since she passed all my grandpa has wanted was to be alone so he can grieve in his own way and process it. Now the first 2 days everybody was afraid to leave him alone myself included. But the day she died everybody started telling him what to do. What food for the funeral he needed to get. So Monday we laid her to rest and Tuesday my aunt came over and was trying to make my grandpa sign thank you cards for those in attendance and those who sent flowers/food etc. which is to 400+ people. My grandfather has t had a second to even process that she is gone let alone grieve. He told her he wasn't ready yet she kept insisting. To me this is not needed nobody expects a thank you card after the funeral. Right?? Maybe we are wrong ?
on Aug. 13, 2014 at 9:57 AM