That was fourteen years ago. To this day, only two people believe me, and because I was met with so much hostility and dismissed as having an over active imagination, I had been hesitant about telling my dh.
He wants me to tell my dad so that should I ever go visit them and he can't go, my dad can be there and hopefully keep my grandfather from trying anything with my three year old dd.
What good will that do? My dad was one of the people in that rabid mob who didn't believe me! Why would he suddenly believe me after fourteen years? Plus it will just spark a war with my dad's side of the family an he will always side with them.
I'd just as soon let sleeping dogs lie. The man is now 80 years old. His life is almost over and then i can visit my paternal family without being afraid of my dd being molested.
Ok, vent/rant over.