I know this wasnt right but what now? *Update* I really need help.
So here's the story. My daughter, Stellas, friends mom who is kind of my friend. Her name is Kate got talking to me today and I tried to let it go but I can't. She started to tell me how weird my kids names are when they really aren't and who cares if they are anyway? Then she told me how wrong it was of me to get pregnant while my husband was still in the military. And by the way it was an accident...a REALLY good one :) So now we are 27 and he's home and we have four amazing kids. But I just couldn't take it anymore she just kept ripping on my family. So I took Stella and told Kate to go fuck herself. She said more than I told you. A few things she said about my husband was how he is worthless and takes steroids and that's how he gets so strong. When I know for a fact he works out and he is and will never be anywhere near worthless. I mean how can you say that to someone? I know it was wrong but I'm not apologizing. Do you think my kids names are weird? They are Stella Marie, Elliott(Eli) Martin, Ireland Nicole, and Layla Kathleen. Also the things she said about my amazing husband were just cruel. What do you think? Are my kids names weird? Do I apologize or confront her? Do I tell my husband what she said (probably not going to do that but your opinion helps) Thanks ladies!!!
I talked to my husband about it and he was really pissed off but he got over it. I think it really hurt him after everything he has been through. Kate called me this morning hinting that I should applogize but I didn't and then asked if Stella wanted to play. I told her our daughers would no longer be playing together but she came to our door. Its like she psycho! I told her Stella wasn't feeling well. My husband then came to the door wanting to talk to her and so he did and it didn't go well. He gets angry really easily (a result of the things hes seen) so I had to calm him down and I told her to leave. Then she called and left a message saying how weird Irelands name is and how my husband is a psycho and should have died in war. I don't know what brought this up but the situation just keeps getting worse. I almost burst into tears when she said that about my husband. When he was in the military it was terrible. I hated not knwoing if he was safe and for her to say that is soooo uncalled for. And the worst part is my husband heard it. We sat down for a while together and didn't say anything but I know hes really hurt. Who wouldn't be? This situaiton is so out of hand. Mamas I need help. What do I do?