NO, being with someone and having their kid doesn't make you a wife!
Ok let me explain my rant. I have a friend I met in nursing school who refers to her baby's father as her "husband." When I asked her how long they have been married for she said, "Well we're not really married but we've been together for 8 years and we live together and have a kid."..... How is that the same as being married?? Do you have an actual marriage certificate?? I'm sorry but legally and technically that's not your husband. It gets on my nerves when other women try to give themselves the wife title, but they aren't even married. If you really want to be a "wife" that bad then why aren't you married?? Since then I have ran into a couple other people with the same issue that claim to be a wife but aren't married. lol NO, you are not a wife. You are a girlfriend.