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Is this cheating....addition to post at bottom....

Anonymous
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DH and I had some female friends over about a month ago. Well he says that he only fingered the one. But I was awake and he doesn't know that. What I saw was not him fingering her. What I saw was him sitting pantless, no underwear either, on the floor with his legs tucked behind him with his face in her crotch area. Now the only reason I saw this is because I heard heavy breathing, both female AND male, and turned over to see why. That's when I saw his face down there. When I rolled over he pulled his head up to see if I was awake. Not realizing I am he goes back down and the heavy breathing begins again. He has no clue that I know and if I were to confront.him he would deny it. So that is not an option. I consider it cheating. What about you ladies??

ADDITION: Here's something crazy. Something told me to not allow DH finger me. It's a good thing I didn't. He ended getting scabies about two weeks, the incubation period, later. When we found out I told myself he's damn lucky he ain't got it on his fucking mouth. 

Posted by Anonymous on Sep. 23, 2014 at 5:36 PM
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lucky2Beeme
by Bronze Member on Sep. 23, 2014 at 5:42 PM
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Are you Joking ? A month ago and now your worried about it. YES he was cheating ! Thats just GROSS. Doing  it right there beside you sleeping. I HOPE this is a TROLL Post


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 23, 2014 at 5:45 PM

That's disgusting, of course it was cheating! Right in front of you, why didn't you say something when you woke up? 

rissat79
by Member on Sep. 23, 2014 at 5:45 PM

You are a idiot for not saying anything when you first seen this.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Sep. 24, 2014 at 10:18 AM
Why didn't you stop him ?
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 24, 2014 at 1:57 PM

And get into an argument that could have turned physical?? Hell naw. 

Quoting Anonymous 2:

That's disgusting, of course it was cheating! Right in front of you, why didn't you say something when you woke up? 


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 24, 2014 at 1:58 PM

He would have told me that he didn't care and kept on because he's sick like that sometimes. 

Quoting Anonymous 3: Why didn't you stop him ?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 24, 2014 at 1:59 PM

Saved an argument that most likely would've turned physical. 

Quoting Anonymous 3: Why didn't you stop him ?


Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Sep. 24, 2014 at 2:01 PM

I can't even believe what you are typing.....

Quoting Anonymous 1:

And get into an argument that could have turned physical?? Hell naw. 

Quoting Anonymous 2:

That's disgusting, of course it was cheating! Right in front of you, why didn't you say something when you woke up? 



Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Sep. 24, 2014 at 2:01 PM

I was worried about it then. No this is not a troll post at all. 

Quoting lucky2Beeme:

Are you Joking ? A month ago and now your worried about it. YES he was cheating ! Thats just GROSS. Doing  it right there beside you sleeping. I HOPE this is a TROLL Post


lollip0p
by Member on Sep. 24, 2014 at 2:01 PM
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But it's ok to finger her?!! What??
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