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basically over it

Posted by Anonymous
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I've been married only 3 years. And there are times I really really love my dh, then there are times I want to pack my shit and leave. He is so selfish, for example ... buys himself a new car without even taking me with him, and I can not drive standards so obviously I can't drive it, he has spent alllll of our money at casinos before, he has this mind set that he makes all of the decisions or that he has final say. it's so frustrating.

He works all the time, which I'm grateful for. But, it's come to the point where I never see him, he chooses to pick up all this extra work instead of wanting to be with me and the kids, feels that way anyway.

We've grown apart, we're not intimate , and we don't sleep in the same room, I don't even see him out of the house. He doesn't come anywhere with us, it's rare if he does.

Today was the first time I drove with him in a car in about a month. I'm at my breaking point. I appreciate his hard work and financially supporting his family , but I miss feeling loved, and miss him in general.

Our relationship is basically phone calls and texts. We don't go on dates because he's never around , he doesn't come with me and the kids anywhere because he's always at work (when in reality he makes enough from his salary that he doesn't have to do all this extra work), he misses family parties and get together , school related things , Dr appts, and so much more.

I feel alone , like a roommate basically. I'm so depressed it's disgusting. I tell him I miss him and want to spend more time Witt him and he says he's going to and doesn't.

At this point I'm not asking him to be with us anymore , I'm not going to force him to want to spend time with us.

I think our marriage has fallen apart. We don't laugh , we don't cuddle , we don't do fun things together , we don't have any fun in the bedroom (both of our fault) we don't joke with each other , we don't play.

It makes me so sad, I feel like I'm lost and so confused. I don't know what to do.
Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 4, 2014 at 11:37 AM
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