(For families who had a baby together and your wife/gf gave birth and step moms.)
How does it feel to be the Non bio mom/ the other mother? Has it affected your relationships, has the inlaws treated you differently to the bio mom? Have you noticed that health care providers treated you differently? Was there anything you worried about, being the non bio mom and all (fears) If you are the step mom, how does that feel? How does that affect your relationship with your inlaws, wife/gf,the children?
I am the non bio mom, and I had alot of fears when my wife was prengnat, like people would tell me im not the mom, or they treate me differently but I wasnt worried about how my wife would treat me because she would never tell me I wasnt the mother. It was the little things I worried about, hell sometimes I still fear people are thinking Im not the mom, but now that we ar ttc soon, im worried the inlaws will treat dd differently to the baby i give birth to as its not going to be their bio grandbaby. They say they wont but time will tell.