I am fine now that hubby is going out with his friend now that I know the reason, I feel bad for the guy and glad he can turn to his friends to deal with his cheating wife.
I just wish I knew earlier so I didnt think my husband was trying to avoid us to go drink a few with the guys.
When I went through my divorce many many years ago, my friends are who got me through, I don't know what would have happened to me with out my friends.
The only worry I have now, is my kids they don't understand why Daddy has to work so much. They think when he leaves he is going to work, and lately there have been a lot of afternoons he has missed tucking them in, and having play time. My little girl, asked me tonight "why does Daddy work so much"
I tell her, that her daddy and mommy love her very much, and daddy has to work so we can have the house we live in, and toys.
I don't know if that is the best thing to say but I think I aught to tell hubby that she is asking a lot, or should I keep her questions to me, and let hubby take care of his friend.