Ok for a little over a month I have been in counciling by myself and with my husband. Having done this before and saw great results, until my hubby went back to old ways. I am going into counciling a little different this time, and very reserved, and watching how my husband handles and what he takes it, in. He was doing great the first few weeks , but after a busy schedule starting up and everything, things we have been advised to do are being set aside until life catches up. A simple thing like date night is turning into a grocery shopping trip, or running to the store together to pay a bill. Seems like now when we go to counciling he feels we are making process and I feel horrible, that I have to share so much with a outsider.
What is you opinion of seeing a marriage counseler? Do you see the bennifit ?
Is there something I can do to make me feel more comfortable when talking to a shrink for a hour about old bad memories I really don't want to talk about?