First grade seems so early to be having to explain about clicks. But, I am having to help manuever my DS through the heartaches of finding his way socially already. Thankfully, it seems that I handled it correctly and for the time being things have calmed down. I spoke to my DS honestly and gave him some ideas of how to handle the situations he was encountering. I wrote a note to the teacher and told her what I was experiencing and told her that their seemed that her students seemed to be trying to find there way socially already. She was very helpful and immediately spoke to the class and explained that it is cool to be friends with everyone. So far, so good. But, I would be interested in hearing about the social drama (if you have any) that you are experiencing with your first grader. My DS is a handsome, bright, healthy kid it just surprised me to be thrown into social heirarchy so early.