His mother is continually throwing a fit about this as well as his brothers wife.
His mother says she is a 52 year old grandma and she WILL be at that hospital when the baby is born, she doesnt care what we say.
It really hurts Dh that his family doesn't support us. It pisses me off, I have a harder time brushing this stuff off. His mother doesn't want me breastfeeding since she won't be able to keep the baby over night as soon. Wth!!! The woman is crazy.
I get that she is excited for her first grandbaby but she never calls me, hasn't invited me over for dinner or to watch movies in the 6months I've been pregnant.
I just don't know what to say to her, she hast said anything to my face about this. It's always to other people. But I've had it, I'm about to blow up on her.
I'm having a natural birth and we don't need all the drama that is happening surrounding the birth of our first child. I don't want a million people there while I'm concentrating on labor. And they say how selfish we are being.
What do I say to these crazy people???
Thanks for letting me vent. I needed that.