Snce I was pregnant with our dd, I have known that there is one more child that belongs to our family. I had an experience when I was out for a walk, that they were running up behind me shouting "Wait! Wait! I wanna come too!" I literally had to look behind me, thinking I had actually forgotten someone. I told this to my dh and he just kinda shrugged and said "Well I think two is enough and that we're done."
He is an only child and everyone in his family had no more than two. I come from a small two kid family myself, but I have aunts and uncles that have 5 or more. My grandparents had 7, my dad being the eldest. My mil thinks that we should be done too. My parents just say that they always wanted to have three, but my mom had to pack us up to move tran-continentally TWICE, once while being preg with my brother. She didn't want to do that preg again and then it just never happened.
So, who gets the final say in this situation? Is it one where only one party is going to be happy and there is going to be a rift?