Seriously, with the birth of my daughter 5 years ago, she STILL gives me a hard time because i didnt want her there during the birth, or even after, i called her the next morning after i had my mommy - daddy bonding time. Then when she did come over, she was so rude, and i caught her spilling out my hard earned breast milk for formula while i was sleeping! SO mad. Why did she even bring formula with her? Psycho.
With this baby i told her i still dont want ANYONE there, thats my personal time, and i probably wont even call her until i get home from the hospital the next day! I dont see the problem with that, my bf's mom is going to be visiting here from Hawaii and i told her the same thing, i dont want anyone in the room, and after the birth we want a few hours of nap and bonding time. She was fine with that, My mom? Ohh no. Her EXACT words were "Umm no. that doesnt happen. Thats FAMILY time. Everyone gets to be in there." Omg lady. Shes lucky i hung up because i wanted to go through the phone.
Its called bonding time!! Why does she have to constantly upset me?? She KNOWS what i want. And has for 5 years! Does anyone else have birthing time crazy people??