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Maybe I should test tomorrow. UPDATE

Posted by on May. 7, 2012 at 12:01 PM
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Iposted several weeks ago that I have been having some spotting. My lmp was March 31. We have been usingt condoms accept on like that 7th or 8th of April. I think I may not have ovulated until the 23rd or 24th. I had spotting before thanonce like the 2- 3rd week of April and then again about 4 or 5 days later. I have been having some symptoms, but also some symptoms of pms as well.  For instance I got som e pimples, cramping, and have been irritable. I have also been crying lately, and had some hip pain (one of my hips has arthritis and it doesn't tend to hurt unless I am pregnant), and then I had some nipple pain, but that seems ot be going away, and it tends to happen during ovulation anyways. My husband does not want kids, so a few times he got wprried and I told him that I should be starting this week so that he would not worry, but honestly in the back of my head I keep thinking that it could be a possibility. So, if I ovulated on the 23rd or 24th, I should be starting today, right? 14 days after the day of ovulation? I keep having dreams that I have started, but I still have not yet! So, should I test tomorrow, or wait a few days if AF hasn't come yet?

UPDATE! So , I believe I started my period., so I'm not going to pick up a new test. What a crazy month! I have to admit, even though we are avoiding pregnancy, I'm still a bit sad, but relieved too.

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Kenzismommy09
by on May. 7, 2012 at 12:04 PM
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I would test today and if its negative wait a a few more days or unless you start. If you don't start within a week or so I would make a dr appt for a blood test.
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Precious333
by Gold Member on May. 7, 2012 at 12:06 PM

oh ,m and I have been so tired lately, except last night I was exhuatsed but could not sleep! The night before I could not stay awake! But, our sleeping schedule has been really thrown off too! Sorry, just brainstorming here.

Precious333
by Gold Member on May. 7, 2012 at 12:07 PM


Quoting Kenzismommy09:

I would test today and if its negative wait a a few more days or unless you start. If you don't start within a week or so I would make a dr appt for a blood test.


I'm so nervous! lol What if its positive? DH will be so upset!

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melindabelcher
by mel on May. 7, 2012 at 12:09 PM
He'll have to get over it and accept it. things happen in life that aren't planned, all you can do is accept it embrace it and move forward. Test if your concerned.


Quoting Precious333:



Quoting Kenzismommy09:

I would test today and if its negative wait a a few more days or unless you start. If you don't start within a week or so I would make a dr appt for a blood test.


I'm so nervous! lol What if its positive? DH will be so upset!


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Precious333
by Gold Member on May. 7, 2012 at 12:17 PM

yaym we've dealth wit hthis 3 tiumes! None of our children were suppose to come as we planned it. the only one we did not try and prevent was my second child, but we didn't plan it either!

Quoting melindabelcher:

He'll have to get over it and accept it. things happen in life that aren't planned, all you can do is accept it embrace it and move forward. Test if your concerned.


Quoting Precious333:

 


Quoting Kenzismommy09:

I would test today and if its negative wait a a few more days or unless you start. If you don't start within a week or so I would make a dr appt for a blood test.


I'm so nervous! lol What if its positive? DH will be so upset!



juliakf333. Get yours at bighugelabs.com
tabi_cat1023
by Group Mod - Tabitha on May. 7, 2012 at 12:36 PM
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If he doesnt want kids there are 2 ways to prevent that...get snipped or no sex..plain and simple..as unhappy as he may be he made the choice to have sex...babies come from sex

Precious333
by Gold Member on May. 7, 2012 at 1:11 PM


Quoting tabi_cat1023:

If he doesnt want kids there are 2 ways to prevent that...get snipped or no sex..plain and simple..as unhappy as he may be he made the choice to have sex...babies come from sex


He wants to get a vasectomy, but is considering having more kids in the future, which he will say he will reverse. I am very weary about vasectomies, but its his choice.

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NDFanatik
by on May. 7, 2012 at 3:58 PM

Go pee and hurry back!

jenniferlee_12
by on May. 7, 2012 at 4:01 PM

Take a test and see. Maybe you are stressing and your sleep pattern has thrown your cycle off.

VintageWife
by on May. 7, 2012 at 6:03 PM

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