How do I teach him or do I just accept it?
I really wanted to be potty training now. I know a lot of moms say to just wait until they're ready, but I just don't feel like that's healthy. Diapers just aren't as sanitary imo. but my DS is severely speech delayed. he is 21 months been in speech therapy for 3 months and has just learned to say no, eww, and a few animal sounds. he can sign more and all done and want. should i just give up? I feel awful because this is something i felt so strongly about, but i don't want to damage him for life. also we had to switch to sposies because while is only 28 lbs its all in his butt and thighs so he doesnt fit like 90% of his dipes and they aren't holding his pee anyway. i have tried naked time, underwear, pullups. nothing is working. he has also watched elmo's potty time dvd over and over and watched DH and me go for months now. nothing. he says eww at diaper changes and sometimes when he feels he has peed. but its not seeming to help.