why did you even allow your family to raise your son in such a way? First of all you need to talk to them and tell them that you dont want that and it has to stop!
I didn't realize all this was going on until to late. I just want to undo it :(
Quoting LittleBirdFly:why did you even allow your family to raise your son in such a way? First of all you need to talk to them and tell them that you dont want that and it has to stop!
If u see him touching a dolls breast
Say those are called breast theyre for feeding little babies
Yes he has seen tv shows. My brothers tv was in the playroom and he would watch inappropiate shows/movies then scold ds for looking at the tv. (the tv has since been moved into my bro room to avoid this)
Quoting Mrs.Salz:Any chance you can move?
Is he exposed to TV shows?
My dad is a sex addict and was sexually abused and had his babysitters (neighbor siblings) performing sexacts in front of him and including him when he was 6+ so he raised us unintentionally overly sensitive to sex.
Isaw this in another group. I agreed with the others that you need to move out. Too many boundaries being crossed at the expense of your son. Counseling may do some good too, or even just one on one time with your son that is encouraging and uplifting, and also teaches correct behavoir. My son sometimes can test the water with body part stuff. I recenlt had to have a one on one conversation with him. It was not done in a shaming sort of way, It was me explaining to him what was appropriate and what was not, and I made sure that he knew he was loved and not in trouble, however if he disobeys and does it again he will get in trouble.
I'm so upset that all this has gone on, I grew up like this and was very sexual very young but didnt put it all together until more recently as my dads issues have come out.
Quoting Precious333:Isaw this in another group. I agreed with the others that you need to move out. Too many boundaries being crossed at the expense of your son. Counseling may do some good too, or even just one on one time with your son that is encouraging and uplifting, and also teaches correct behavoir. My son sometimes can test the water with body part stuff. I recenlt had to have a one on one conversation with him. It was not done in a shaming sort of way, It was me explaining to him what was appropriate and what was not, and I made sure that he knew he was loved and not in trouble, however if he disobeys and does it again he will get in trouble.
All families have their past issues that get passed down many times to their children, but its when we recognize them that we can change them. So hopefully you and your DH can come together and figure this out. So sorry that you all have gone through this, but there is still hope for future generations!
Quoting melindabelcher:
Thankyou I appreciate you taking the time to answer.
I'm so upset that all this has gone on, I grew up like this and was very sexual very young but didnt put it all together until more recently as my dads issues have come out.
Quoting Precious333:
Isaw this in another group. I agreed with the others that you need to move out. Too many boundaries being crossed at the expense of your son. Counseling may do some good too, or even just one on one time with your son that is encouraging and uplifting, and also teaches correct behavoir. My son sometimes can test the water with body part stuff. I recenlt had to have a one on one conversation with him. It was not done in a shaming sort of way, It was me explaining to him what was appropriate and what was not, and I made sure that he knew he was loved and not in trouble, however if he disobeys and does it again he will get in trouble.
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- melindabelcher
on Aug. 30, 2012 at 7:10 PM