Need BRUTALLY Honest Opinions ASAP!!!

[larissalarie]

I need the kinda honestly that only strangers on the internet can provide. Be honest, even if it's mean I really want the truth!

I've got an interview in the morning. I got ridiculously fat after having my last child (lol, who gains after they have the baby???), so my clothes from when I worked with my older don't really fit. So in the replies I'll post the 2 options I've got. How bad is it?? In the first, the sweater is too bulky, so I'm going to try to find a new one tonight and nude tights might help. The second one I think I need better shoes...
Don't hold back!!

[larissalarie]

And I really wasn't fishing for compliments, I swear. I'm just so paranoid about my size right now...hubby's actions certainly didn't help that insecurity any :-\ Thank you all for saying kind things though.
This picture is me at my normal size, so you can see I'm quite a lot larger now.

[hapababies]

Woohoo!!!!! Good luck :)

Quoting larissalarie:

It is!! I emailed my resume yesterday and got a phone call by 9:30 this morning :-)

Quoting hapababies:

Good luck :)


Is it a real estate job interview?

[Kyonarai]

I like the second one too

[SadieJames]

I think you look great, period! I do like #2.  Need a picture of the new shoes! And I'm sorry your STBXH actions made you doubt yourself - you're a beautiful woman, excellent mother and all around good person (from what i can tell through the internet!) and he's a jackass - remember that.  

[Jess0915]

I think both look fine, you're not huge btw, you look just fine. :) Good luck!

[VintageWife]

#2

[catholicmamamia]

I like the second one better.... and you are not fat, you are beautiful!

[haleykj]

2

[jconney80]

I like the second one the best!

[jconney80]

And seriously it's so much harder to have time to eat well and exercise when you add another kid to your life!! When I only had two kids and was pregnant with Grace I hiked my entire pregnancy. After I had her.... Pffft!! I have no time at all. Of course if she slept it would be a different story!!