so my goal was to have my 3 year old sleeping in her own bed through the night by the time baby #2 gets here (which is still a long way away... i'm due in August). Our routine was i'd put her in her bed and sit with her, hold her hand till she fell asleep. I love that part and was not planning to get rid of it. But she always ends up in our bed halfway through the night. My intention was to help her get back to sleep in her own bed and have her stay there all night. Mostly so that when baby is born, she will sleep through the night without being woken up by a boob monger. INSTEAD what has happened is that i put her to sleep in MY bed, sometimes with her actually lying on TOP of me and she stays in my bed ALL night instead of half the night. how in the HELL did that happen??? LOL. truth be told, i'd sleep with that lady for the rest of my life if she'd let me. ::sigh:: am i setting us all up for disaster in August????