UPDATE #2 ~ Doctors okaying birth at 36 weeks!
Ok so Ive been sitting on this for a couple days and already vented about this on FB hoping it would make the girl respond, she ignored it apparently but still has been commenting and liking all my other posts.
I have a friend that is 36 soon to be 37 weeks with her third son and at her 36 week appointment her doctor swept her membrane and told her its completely safe to have the baby at 36 weeks on. Well when I read that I literally cried, as a mom of two preemies and someone that works closely with the March of Dimes is made me physically ill. I tried and tried and tried to talk sense into her before her appointment but her reasoning is he said it was ok and she is just completely done with pregnancy and in pain and uncomfortable.
I would give anything to be in her shoes, to be able to carry a baby full term (40+) and would gladly take the pain and discomfort that comes along with it just to know that my baby is safe and has a decreased chance of complications and NICU stay. Its sad to see what this society has done to moms. Oh and yes she has full on medical births that are induced etc...
1/11 ~ First Im still not talking to her, my fiance does though but refused to bring up the subject with her and let her know how much it hurt both of us. I keep posting info on my fb wall but whether she reads it who knows.
Anyway she had her 37 week appointment today and she is only dilated to like a finger tip according to her fb post and has been for some time. Sadly there is no conviencing her it means nothing but she did say that it looks like a long wait till labor so Im guessing all induction talks is off the table since the March of Dimes in cracking down and anything before 39 weeks. Lets just hope she doesnt fine a way to induce at home or talk her doctor into a quack reason to induce.
1/15 ~ well I probably wont be updating after this, I have broke off my friendship with her and her fiance (my fiance Im not sure what he will do since he has known them both way longer). She isnt even 38 weeks yet and in full complaning mode and even posted on fb last night looking for ways to practically induce labor. Well I ranted about it and she finally said something and when I said yes it was aimed at her and that after having two preemies I would give anything to have a healthy full term pregnancy and even go past due. Well her fiance went on the defensive and called me out and attacked me. I didnt respond just removed them both from my friends and leaving it in my fiance's hands from here.
Guess I should also add that she is the one that I was going to make the breastfeeding basket for which now obviously Im not. they also do alot of thing I hate and dont agree with like letting their other son they have together eat practically only junk (they each also have kids that they dont have custody of) and that is when the have food in the house, they are constantly asking people to give them money or buy them food cause neither will get out and look for work