I told my mother in law...

[somuchlove4U]

So I told my mother in law that I'm seeing a midwife. Her facial expression told me how she felt about that. Then I told her that I was going for a natural birth. The shock in her face almost had me rolling on the floor. My husband was trying to explain our reasons and she just said not me I needed drugs!

[mommaslilmen]

df's mouth about dropped to the ground when I told our midwife I wanted to try for natural. He knows I have a VERY low pain tolerance and as he puts it "your soo tiny, im afraid of you getting hurt too badly"

i love him, and he promises to be my support and not push drugs :)

[mommytotwonow]

 i will not tell my mil thati want a home birth. not worth the stress. dh will call them to come see the baby once he/she is born.

Quoting amazzonia:

mils.....why do they always have to be against they dils decisions?!?!?!? can't wait to be pregnant again to tell her that I'll have a homebirth lol for sure I'm going to tape that!

 OP dont talk about that stuff with people that are negative. you can do and you dont need the bad energy!

[amazzonia]

They live overseas so there is nothing much they can do, just not answer Skype when they call lol, but it understand why you are not going to tell anyone, if they lived anywhere nearer I wouldn't tell them either 

Quoting mommytotwonow:

 i will not tell my mil thati want a home birth. not worth the stress. dh will call them to come see the baby once he/she is born.

Quoting amazzonia:

mils.....why do they always have to be against they dils decisions?!?!?!? can't wait to be pregnant again to tell her that I'll have a homebirth lol for sure I'm going to tape that!

 OP dont talk about that stuff with people that are negative. you can do and you dont need the bad energy!