Starting the homebirth conversation with spouse?
I have been thinking about having a homebirth with our third child. I'm not pregnant yet but will probably be within the year. I have a husband who is more mainstream on a lot of things. Childbirth being one of them. He is also very hard to convince. I could throw facts and books and videos at him and he won't believe a thing I say. Now if it comes out of someone elses mouth, like say a Dr or nurse he is more likely to believe it. For instance, he didn't understand why I wouldn't use drugs while I was pregnant or during labor until we did the birthing class and the teacher explained it even after I told him the same reasons.
I know that talking to a homebirth midwife will be the best way to convince him, which we have in our town and plan to have a consultation with. How do I start the conversation? What worked best for you if you have a husband like mine?