My baby is 6 months old. In a couple of weeks a group of very old friends are having a reunion get together. It's dinner and drinks at a restaurant/bar so I definitely can't bring the baby. She is extremely attached at this age and we bed share so she comfort nurses most of the night. I cant even sneak out of bed for 20 minutes or she wakes up crying. Dad works second shift so most nights he isn't even here at bedtime and when he is she wants pretty much nothing to do with him since I'm around. Her separatin anxiety is so high she wont even let grandma hold her when Im in the same room (but when i leave she settles down). I really want to go but I can't stand the thought of her being miserable without me home at bedtime. It's a 40 min drive each way so it would be at least 3 hours and that's if the visit is brief. And I would probably have to call ahead to see if there's an outlet in the restroom or somewhere I can lug my big heavy pump to. :/ I don't want to pass this up but it seems so hard to figure out. Any Advice or suggestions?