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Sahm vent

Posted by on Feb. 23, 2013 at 11:23 PM
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So I just got back from my inlaws. As usual my son not being intact was brought up in a joking matter. But still it's his penis. And to top of the evening the fact I am not in school or not working got thrown in my face and how I need to stop mooching off the government. I wish I would have said mooch how we pay all our own bills and have no help from noone! It just makes me sad they have hated me since I was 15 (I'm not almost 22). You would think after all this time things would change. I mean my sil threatened to kill them and they actually bought a gun to protect themselves but the freaking love her.
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larissalarie
by Gold Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 12:02 AM
So you don't work outside the home, but you receive assistance?
Just don't tell them your business and them they won't have anything to talk about.
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peaches_04
by Platinum Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 1:43 AM
Did u mean to say is intact?
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Sunshine_246
by on Feb. 24, 2013 at 2:00 AM
They just assume that since you don't work that you must be getting help?
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littlelambe2
by on Feb. 24, 2013 at 2:02 AM
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I'm confused

schultzal
by Bronze Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 3:03 AM
Same.

Quoting littlelambe2:

I'm confused

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GoodyBrook
by Silver Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 7:29 AM
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I find the less that my parents and my husband's family know about our lives, the happier we all are.  I'd much rather talk about the weather and other impersonal topics at a family get-together than discuss my parenting and lifestyle choices!  :)

Sorry you have poopy in-laws!

Baby_Avas_Momma
by on Feb. 24, 2013 at 7:33 AM
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Yeaaaa..... I wouldn't be visiting with anyone anymore who insists on cracking jokes about my kid's genitals and who straight up insult me to my face. DF would would tell them where to go and how to get there real quick and they'd never see us again for a long time.
((Hugs)) mama :(
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Amycapl
by Member on Feb. 24, 2013 at 8:29 AM
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the only person who would ever get the green light to talk to me like that is my 94 year old grandfather with dimentia.  And even HE wouldn't talk to me like that!  your post was a bit wonky, but i think the point of the story is that they're awful to you.  They should not be allowed to make you feel that way.  Cut them off until they can respect your decisions.  

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piwife
by on Feb. 24, 2013 at 8:39 AM
Umm so why you keep going there?
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tabi_cat1023
by Group Mod - Tabitha on Feb. 24, 2013 at 8:39 AM
Im sorry they treat you bad sounds like a toxic relationship that needs to end
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