31 weeks with second baby and they want to induce me
OK ! So my daughter is 4 ( almost 5 years old) , and she was induced when i was 38-39 weeks pregnant . I was OK with it back then ( i was 19 , and didnt research it at all because i figured i could trust my doctors advice) , but now with my second baby, and being older and "wiser" i have learned the horrors,risks, and downside to being induced. They induced me based on the guess that my daughter was going to be to large for me to deliver naturally. she was 8lbs 4oz , they guessed she would be closer to 10. Anyways, i had no problem giving birth to her, she came out with a perfectly shaped head, and i had no complications at all except for some tearing and they had to cut me. They just assumed my pelvis was small because i am borderline petite ? I think i am pretty average sized, i have "petite" friends, im 5'4 weigh about 115lb pre second pregnancy ( 105 pre first ), i dont have abnormally small hips or abnormally large hips either. EITHER WAY , lol, this last appointment i went to they told me that they think it would be in my best interest to get induced again at 39 weeks to make sure that i can deliver vaginally. Well i dont want to . can they make me ? and if i am able to go into labor naturally, once i am in the hospital how can i keep them from giving me anything to push things along? can they force me to take pitocin?