I am plannign my second homebirth in october. Imy dd is 2.5 years old currently and will almost be three at the time of the birth. I was curious would you let a child of that age witness the birth? or do you think I would scare her with my moaning and just allow her to come see the baby as soon as its born? She doesnt scare easily but she has huge amounts of empathy so she might be worried for mama.