My inlaws came over yesterday. Of coursevthe first thing she asks is if i had my prenatal yet. I am 18 weeks, my sil has two and due in sept and i have had only one, due in august, but thats because im still searching for a midwife. Ith the past two births we have had homebirths. I bever discussed the births other than to say that 'our.midwife......" well i told her i had three interviews and the last midwide told me not to worry, it would be fine to wait a few more weeks, and im obviously takinf care of myself, baby is kicking and moving, i never had complications with the other three pregnancies, so dont rush to decide. My mil said "well, i guess you wont be going with her!" I said, i dont know yet, and she helped take the pressure off rushing into a decision.
Then i told them that i basically got promoted to being the directer for the kid's campus. She pretty much ignored me and asked what grade damien (my oldest) is in, and where he was at academically etc. We are homeschooling and she is very opposed. I told her because i knew that i would possibly be needing her to babysit while i went to training. she doesnt have to agree with everything we do, but she doesnt need to drill me either, and just the tone! Grrrrr
on Mar. 24, 2013 at 11:32 AM