Tandem nursing isn't going as well as I was hoping and I'm really disliking it. The nursing aversion I had during pregnancy comes back whenever my toddler (26 months) nurses and I I feel resentful and irritated and almost sick, so I think it's in our best interest if we wean. I'm also really worried about the aversion transferring to my 6 week old, especially since I don't like or enjoy breastfeeding in general.
Any advice on how to wean when he has a hysterical tantrum anytime he asks to nurse and I tell him "not now" or "later"? How can I help him understand that he's still loved when he can't nurse, even though his brother does all the time? He's already night weaned and only asks a few times a day. I'd like to get him down to just morning and/or bedtime and see if the aversion is manageable at that point, and go from there.
I'm disappointed things turned out like this but I'd like to end this stage of our relationship as positively as we can.