My cousin, who is six months younger than me, is getting married soon. She had a liver transplant when we were 15. She can have a pregnancy but the risk is super high. I had eclampsia and HELLP with my dd but the chance of having it again is small. I am considering surrogating if I can carry my next pregnancy healthy - is that crazy? BTW she and I have talked about it and she's worried about me but I'm worried about her lol. They want kids but its really not an option for her to go off her meds.
Would you surrogate? Why or why not?
ETA this is arbitrary and far in the future : ) she's not even getting married for another 18 months. She talked briefly to one adoption agency who will not work with transplant recipient moms but I'm sure others will and she would adopt if possible.