I looked into cloth diapers before, and felt a little overwhelmed. Now my first is about to be 2, my second is 4 months. I feel like a have a handle on life (as much as possible) and want to give cloth diapers a chance. I've already bought a couple pocket diapers (one size fits all) with inserts (some micro fiber and one hemp). I wanted some advice on what laundry detergent to use and should I use fabric softener and dryer sheets? Also, with these pocket diapers, is it acceptable to use the same diaper and just change the insert throughout the day (unless of course there leakage on the diaper)? Any advice on the subject is welcome.