Engage baby - Baby Arrived Jan 25th
I was only dilated to a 3 last they checked 10 hrs ago, but baby's head is not engaged in cervix, therefore contractions are not productive.
I am trying exercises from spinning babies to engage him, but nothing has worked yet.
Any suggestions, any experience with this? Fortunately dr knows I don't want drugs or augmentation so as of now baby gets monitored 20 minutes every four hours, no checks, no restrictions...
Help, I am tired haven't slept in two nights and afraid I will give in to intervention if this continues...
For this that haven't read through- I went home Sunday morning because I didn't want to be augmented, my OB encouraged that decision and never pushed me to augment. Got a chiropractic adjustment on my pelvis Monday morning, have done some walking and some exercises to engage baby, but mostly just resting, relaxing, waiting...
Today went to dr, he said I was making an excellent decision to wait for baby to come on his own (he is amazing and has won my trust as an OB). He checked my cervix, I am dilated to 4cm, baby is ENGAGED, and my bag of waters is bulging so much that he said he thinks it will break at any moment and active labor will begin quickly and progress relatively fast. I am not sure if I mentioned that I am having a VBAC (it is my second) so I have a lot if distrust for OB's in general. I am so happy with my OB, he has really proven himself to me at this point.
Thanks for the encouragement you ladies have given me as well. I will keep you updated.
Final update - baby is here
I have hesitated to post this because on Friday January 24th after a week of very slow labor/progress and decreased movement of my baby... And increased stress and worry over his health at 41 weeks 3 days I agreed to have my water broken.
It was a very difficult decision for me, and not without a few tears, as I had stuck to my decision not to speed the natural birth process along. I don't know if it was the best decision, but I had to come to a place where I had to weigh allowing nature to take it's course and the health of my baby. I didn't have concrete medical evidence that the baby was in distress but I had spent the previous two days feeling like something wasn't quite right and I decided I needed to listen to my intuition.
Labor progressed naturally from there with no augmentation. Within 8 hours I was in the birthing tub pushing and it seemed we would have a baby very shortly, but 45 minutes later we all knew something was not right. My baby's head was sideways and my cervix was completely swollen so baby would not come down the birth canal. My dr begged me to get an epidural so that I could stop pushing and rest for a little bit. I agreed, but they had trouble placing the epidural since I was contracting/ pushing and after 45 more minutes my dr used the vacuum to turn baby's head and I pushed him out. Amazingly I had no tearing, my dr was able to gently stretch me as he helped guide baby out. Baby was on my chest immediately and we delayed cord clamping, he transitioned pretty well, considering, although I requested he be suctioned after awhile because he was struggling to nurse and breath at the same time. After that he was fine.
Baby was engaged prior to my water being broken so I have no idea if things would have gone differently had we just waited for my water to break in its own.
Baby was definitely a 41 week baby, he was 7lbs 13oz and 20 inches long.
My VBAC with gestational diabetes was a success and I thank my doctor for that! Most would have sent me to the OR and would never have encouraged me to go past 41 weeks.
Matias Eero Pyykkonen is healthy and nursing like a champ! Already gaining weight!
Pic on page 5 of comments.