ok here is my situation. i had a iratrogenic c-section with me baby almost 19 months ago. we plan on getting pregnant in about another year or so. so i want a vbac desperately!!! i dont even want to go to the hospital, but my hubby is dead set against a home birth AND a midwife!!! he says i can do vbac in the hospital with an obgyn. i said but i want a midwife and a doula, he said if you are reading up on this sooo much y do you need a doula to help you? im there and you can do it yourself. i was very pissed!!! im the one who is gonna have his future babies and i cant even do it the way that i want to!!! he says that he is scared for me not to be in the hospital and doesnt "believe" in midwives and doulas. he says thats what we have doctors for and if im that uncomfortable find a woman ob. i said its not the same....ive been reading ina mays guide to natural childbirth and i want to do it that way. so my question is how can i change his mind??? my hubby is not bad or unsupportive but he was raised that doctors knows best ALL the time!!! his mother goes like every other week and wants an antibotic if she and her smaller kids gets the sniffles. so thats a whole other can of worms....but i need some suggestions, i am giving myself a year to prepare/change his mind and i need some help desperately!!!