Link to search resourses group

[onethentwins]

If you're searching this group has loads of info:

http://www.cafemom.com/group/35065/

[lynnfarnham63]

I have been looking for my two sons for about 22 years now and still no luck. I am on SSI and can not afford for any research. I don't know what to do. I wish that I could find them just to be reunited and get to know them again. There is no amount of money(when youhave none)to put on your child. I did what I had to do for my two boys which would have benefit them. And I lost to boys for all them years. Isn't that enough payment?Now I can not afford $$$$ to get information.  I just don't have it. My bills now are to high to let them just go to collectores. (Which some already have).

[adopteeme]

Many of the resource links in my group are online, and free.

Another thing to consider.....join and attend search and support groups in the area you live- and also, if relevant, the area the child was born and adopted in.  NETWORK with them!  Ask them for help.....they know where, how to search that area.  Searchers have a much better success rate when working with a group. 

[CandyE]

Check out the list of links on adopteemee's group (mentioned above) - there are lots of place online to search and register that don't cost anything.  My first son found me through classmates.com (but he had my name and home town) and we found my second son on adoption.com and myspacecom

If you have computer access and time, there are lots of ways to search!

[pattersoncara]

do you know anything about them? did you go through a lawyer?  if you have names, and any other identifiable info, in this day and age you should be able to find them. there is a registry for birthparents and adoptees that help find each other.  let me know what you know and if i can i will give you some info. i have a daughter who will be 18 in august and i am really wanting to find her.

[NovemberLove]

Can I make a suggestion?

Would it be possible to develop our own group of links to keep here in the OP (and update the OP when people post new ones)?  I'm in two adoption groups already as well as additional groups and althought I'll check this group out and consider it, I like to limit the amount of groups that I am in to make sure I'm actually participating in those groups :-)

Here are my resources:

Reunion Registries:  http://www.birthquest.org/, http://registry.adoption.com/, http://www.the-seeker.com/angels.htm, http://www.gsadoptionregistry.com/searchrequestform.html, http://www.isrr.net/, http://www.plumsite.com/care/, http://www.geocities.com/Heartland/Oaks/3847/,