are you the first bigger girl

[2bkayleesmommy]

Your hubby/ SO has been with? And how have u come to accept It and not think does he wish u were thinner?

[MissyB1011]

My hubby has only known me as heavy. He loves me for who I am. His mom is also overweight, so I don't think he has a problem with it.

[Dontchawishuknu]

No, I'm not the first plus-size woman my DH has been with. Obviously, your hubby accepts you the way that you are or he wouldn't have chosen you, so cut yourself some slack with the worry that you're not worthy enough because of your size.

What would you tell your BFF if she asked you the same question? You'd tell her that she was a beautiful woman and her hubby would be an idiot if he didn't think so, too. So, look yourself in the mirror and offer the lovely woman there the same advice.

Sweetie, you are a stunning woman! Your hubby is a lucky man.

((Hugs))

[mom24girlsmt]

Im the first for my dh, Im way harder on myself then he could ever be. I bring it up way to often :( I need to get over it.. I always feel like he is comparing me to his exs when really if he is with me then he loves me and I should leave it at that

[PatriciosAngel]

DH's 1st wife was heavy. When he and I married I was a size 0...0ne baby and 4.5 years later I am a size 12-14. Dh loves me no matter my size...secretly I think he "fattened" me up on purpose :)

[crzy4luvfrmu18]

My DH has pretty much always dated big girls, but I still worry about it sometimes.  Luckily my husband reassures me on a regular basis that he thinks I'm sexy, gorgeous, and beautiful! I'm sure your man feels the same way, or he wouldn't be with you!

[2bkayleesmommy]

Awe thanks ladies! I know he's very attracted to me! And I know I'm the best looking girl he's been with but I am hard on myself for my weight.. I was a size 12 for the best part of my life if my ass wasn't so huge I'd prob be a 10.. Hahaha but I'm suffering @ this size 18! (I'm pregnant now) and he keeps telling me it's okay to gain weight with being pregnant (this is bb#2) and I gained 87lbs with bb#1 lost about 75 of those lbs but kept some on and a c-sec messed me up! Haha but like someone said I do compare myself to other girls he's been with and I shouldn't cuz the only thing they had was a smaller tummy and thighs but I have bigger boobs and butt!! ( And he loves it )

[cavalier_craz]

I was pretty much his first everything. Lol. But I was skinny when we first got together. I didnt gain weight until like 3 years ago.

[krickette]

It helps that Hubby and I have been together since the 11th grade we both where smaller then but with 34 years under our belt we are still both about the same size we could really stand to lose about 50 lbs

Krickette

[drdevault]

I was a size 10 when I met dh but now I am a size 16-18, I am the only bigger person my dh has been with and it bothers me, His mom and sister are overweight. Well his mom just lost 54lbs and counting, so proud of her. I am trying to lose but its hard. I do think about it and it does bother me, even though he says Im not fat, I had 4 kids I am goign to gain,. All the things he should say.

[dae43123]

yep i sure am and at first he was having aproblem with it but then he learned to love every once of me. I guess he realized there is more cushion for the pushing. LOLOL