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Any problems or concerns in the bedroom after the procedure?

Posted by on Feb. 8, 2009 at 2:05 PM
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I am 29 and had a LAVH just 4 weeks ago, i have been very active and had a quick recovery. The Dr. released me back to normal duties and said i could visit the bedroom, i told him it was the farthest thing from my mind because i was scared. So when i was ready i tried it went fine except a little blood. So we waited again and then tried and then there it was agian. No pain at all in any way, and none after just a litlle during? It now has me a little concerned? Am I alone in this?

Posted by on Feb. 8, 2009 at 2:05 PM
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babey_longlake
by New Member on Feb. 8, 2009 at 3:55 PM

Wow Iam surprised that they said you could have sex after four weeks... i was told after having LAVH Nov 22nd 08 that I couldn't put ANYTHING in my vagina for 6 weeks.

Since Jan 1st my six week point we have had sex on 5 times.

And at that point I had a some spots of blood, more a red tint then bleeding per say, afterwards.

But my issues are the pressure and discomfort. Sex doesn't fell that same to me. I don't have the desire for it. I haven't a orgasim since I was allowed to have sex about a month ago.

My husband also say it feels alot different and sometimes it is hard for him to get off.

Since Jan 1st my six week point we could have sex we have only done it 5 times because being scared and these issues.

Sorry I am looking for answers. Is this normal what I am going thru?

dlgould4
by on Feb. 9, 2009 at 1:15 PM

I have only had sex once or twice (I know, shame on me for not remembering LOL) since my 6 wk mark in mid January.  We waited 1 extra week b/c I was still passing stitches.  I was also nervous about pain, will it feel different, and will my hubby notice a difference.  There was no pain thankfully.  I want more but I'm off limits for the time being.  I got infected with MRSA.  I can't wait until I'm done with the antibiotics and no longer contagious.  I actually enjoyed sex for the first time in years.  Was too painful before surgery to the point where we only had sex maybe 5 times a year.

Zakysmommy
by on Feb. 11, 2009 at 10:30 AM

Sex was a million times better for me after my LAVH, no pain, no bleeding, was great.

Racingmom15
by New Member on Feb. 12, 2009 at 4:11 PM

I also had some bleeding after 6 weeks. Orgasms are different now. No more uterine contractions. I feel hollow and empty inside.  Husband still sayys everything is good but i feel totally different. Kinda wish I wouldnt have had it done.

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