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3 kids?

Posted by on Aug. 13, 2010 at 10:52 PM
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So hubby and I are contemplating adding baby#3 to our family. We both are not 100% sure though. I feel like if we're going to do it then now is the time. I want all of my kids ages to be close and I still want to be young.. Lilly is 4 and Shay is almost 2, good ages for a 3rd one to come in on.

The only reasons we are not 100% sure are these :money, and my personal fears.

I already dont get out as much as I used to because I don't always want to deal with two kids getting fussy when its just me. And its usually just me and the girls shopping alone and going out alone.

Sooo, Im concerned that if I have a 3rd child I'll never get out of the house.

Any of you with three kids, how do you feel about this? Is it much different than just having two, more stressful..?

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Posted by on Aug. 13, 2010 at 10:52 PM
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mamaleila
by on Aug. 13, 2010 at 11:36 PM
They say having two kids is like two and having three is like having ten, its true....adding the third is hard, fun but way harder! :)
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nmyth9w
by Member on Aug. 20, 2010 at 12:34 PM
G'luck w the decision! DH and I are contemplating ttc for our second but money is definitely an issue. Of course if we wait till we are millionaires it might never happen. Lol >.
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Kibbygirl80
by Member on Aug. 20, 2010 at 2:10 PM

lol, That's what they always say! If you decide to wait on having children until everything is "just right" you will never have children. 

Rebecca77
by Group Owner on Aug. 20, 2010 at 7:49 PM

what is ttc?

I've heard that too Kibby, my sis still hasnt had one because they're waiting to have more money. Shes been with her man for 10 years... I keep telling her that she'll never have kids if she waits till she feels financially ready. lol

Kibbygirl80
by Member on Aug. 20, 2010 at 11:18 PM

TTC = Trying to conceive =)

Rebecca77
by Group Owner on Aug. 20, 2010 at 11:50 PM

oohh, now Im in the loop. lol Let me know if you do! (IF) we do, thatd be fun to be preggers at the same time. haha

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