Anyways, I have also used the time out and naughty spot for my daughter
(3 1/2), about 6 months ago she started to tell me now and to just try her luck with missbehaving. I also would make her appologize to me. And so far it has worked.
Now if the nanny would give me some ideas on how to get the kids to try new foods. They just look at it and say either "No thank you, I don't want it" (LOL, how polite) or they will just pull up their noses and say "I am not eating this".
I have tried to convince them to at least try it, my older one seems to be OK with that. I don't make them eat it if they REALLY REALLY don't like it. But my little one, she won't even try it. I don't want to force her, but she is really really pushing us to our limits at dinner time. I can just hope she will outgrow this belogna sandwich stage, just like my son did! But then I wonder, what if she doesn't????
If anyone has a good suggestion..... PLEASE let me know! I don't know what else to do, except force feed.....which I absolutely do not want to do.
Thanks,
Have a great weekend everyone.
I have tried to use time out, but my daughter who turned two in December just deosn't seem to get it (or doesn't want to get it). She won't stay put for anything, of course I don't keep a consistant "naughty spot." Maybe that would do the trick.
What I have had success with is getting my daughter to apologize to me and making her say "sorry, for hitting you" or whatever it is that she is in trouble for. I feel like it helps her to understand why she has been punished and also it helps me to hear her understand what she is doing wrong.
Very good question!
My son is 16 but I have many kids of all ages in my home often. One technique that has always worked for me is the "No thank you bite technique". This is where everyone is required to have at least a no thank you bite of everything. I have found that first of all they become used to the fact that they at least have to take one bite. Often they end up realizing that they like whatever it is that we are eating. Secondly, they learn to try new things which can also be a valuable tool for other parts of life. You may have a little trouble implementing it at first but just be consistent. When children know that something is expected of them and they can't negotiate their way out of it, then they meet the challenge. It will just be a matter of you firmly and consistently letting them know that this is the expectation. You'll have them eating a variety of foods in no time!! Enjoy!!
We also get to her level to talk when she is getting frustrated or upset about something.


- Little_bug
on Feb. 27, 2007 at 9:19 AM