looking for a surrogate

[t_barbee]

We are looking for a GS.. We have frozen embies and looking  to start soon as we can.. I would just like to know more about you, Your likes and dislikes? What you are expecting to come out of you being a surrogate? The type of relationship you want before and after the birth? Do you live in a surrogate friendly state? I want someone who has their heart in this adventure completely, I can't handle any games, ( not saying you would, it just I have been down that road) . I have my heart and my hubby has his in this 110% , we want our dream to come thru.  We are looking for our special Surro Angel, it would be wonderful if she was reading this e-mail right now. I'm a very hands on person and I will be involved as much as I'm allowed and distance permits. I would be the Mom to be who recorded our voices and sent them to play for the baby... I would be the one who called until you were sick of me to make sure you and the baby was doing good.

We just want our little bundle of joy to hold and share a lifetime of hugs and kisses, take him or her to the park, splash in mud puddles or just snuggle up with for a story.

We have been married for 2 1/2 years, we are very secure in our marriage and our home life. We live on the lake (its nice to open the windows for the view of the lake. We had a rough year, but we feel like this is going to be a great year, we just know we are going to find our surrogate angel  and have a beautiful bundle of joy on the way.. We are an open book. So don't be afraid to ask questions. We want to have an all inclusive fee of 18,000... That way everyone know exactly what they are in for or getting.. We just know that our angel is out there. If you have a heart of gold and are truly doing this because you want someone to be a Mommy just like yo then I would really like to talk to you..
It may not be alot of money but hey are you really doing for the money or to help someone? Think about in them terms.....What did you do when you were pregnant with your second or third child even your first. This is not stopping you from doing anything that when you where pregnant with your own... Think about it... Help our dreams come thru..
So after reading this ... and you think you might be our Surro Angel .. We would like to talk some more..

Hugs to you.....

(((((((((((((HUGS)))))))))))))))))))))))))))))))

Teresia
A message to my surrogate would be....
I promise to be the best IM possible..... I may not be perfect but I will try my best.. I will be there for you in person as much as distance allows, I will always be a phone call away.. Day or Night.. No matter how big or small I will be there.. Even after the birth you will have a friend for life because you have giving me the greatest gift of all..
You will always have a special part of my life ... As the years goes by and the baby grows in a adult, you will still be a part of my life because you were my Surro Angel...

Hugs to you.....
Love ya
Teresia

[Aileara]

Sorry to be so long replying.  Our son had to have surgery this past Monday, so it's been very hectic for us getting everything ready.  The surgery went extremely well and he's back to his normal self after only a few days.

What a beautiful post t-barbee.  I've put a sticky on it so it stays near the top for potential surrogates to see.  DH and I have been down the road you're on, and have a wonderful son from our adventure.  As you know, it's a wild ride, but so worth it when you find that special lady.

Good luck, and please let us know how things are going.

[t_barbee]

Hello

    Thanks!!!!!!!!! you are so right its a bumpy road.. I  decided I should go with my heart & true gut feelings & with that I will have my bundle of joy...
I will keep all posted..
Thanks again and have a wonderful week and keep on enjoying your little one.. For they are the greatest gifts in the world...

Big Hugs
Teresai

Quoting Aileara:

Sorry to be so long replying.  Our son had to have surgery this past Monday, so it's been very hectic for us getting everything ready.  The surgery went extremely well and he's back to his normal self after only a few days.

What a beautiful post t-barbee.  I've put a sticky on it so it stays near the top for potential surrogates to see.  DH and I have been down the road you're on, and have a wonderful son from our adventure.  As you know, it's a wild ride, but so worth it when you find that special lady.

Good luck, and please let us know how things are going.

[MelilovesAlex]

Hello  i am currently with 4 different surrogate agency's waiting for a potential parents.  I have been wanting to do this for about 6 years before my son was born.  I finally did the research and applied last aug 07 to start the process.  Just recently i was called about a mother out of Redondo Beach, CA and i live in Hemet  about an hour away from each other.   i am really excited to start but the wait is hard.  I  can't wait to help someone out with THE GIFT OF LIFE to them.

[Aileara]

I think the waiting is the hardest thing for both the surrogate and the parents.  Hang in there.  It sounds like you've found your IPs, and once the journey actually gets underway the time speeds by.  Good luck and keep us posted.

[daddyz_baby]

Have you guys found your surrogate?

[Aileara]

Hopefully they have, but haven't heard from either of them.

[cohipgirl]

I have applied to reproductivelawyer.com and I got denied they didnt say exactly why it said for clinical reasons the only thing I can really think it would be is I did not want to abort anytime, unless doctor thinks it is best for me.  I don't want to abort and I dont think I could have an unhealthy baby.  My daughter was a easy delievery and I had no pain or did not feel contractions I just had my water broke and came so quicky.  I really enjoyed it.  I really wanted to experience pregnancy again without keeping the child and this is why I wanted to do this.  But I guess I just need to keep applying to these places and find that I can do it someday.  I would love to build a relationship with the parent through the whole thing and be involved as much as possible I don't expect much back after birth because it would be your child to love and hold and all the good things in the world for the child.  So, yeah I was just curiuos why denied?  But good luck.  I am 24 with a 3 year old daughter. :) 

[Aileara]

Wow, no idea why you'd be denied.  Not wanting to abort unless medically necessary is a good thing, not a bad one.  Don't give up - keep looking.  Try contacting an agency directly.  Unless you know the website personally, I wouldn't trust them too much.  Good luck and keep us posted.

[trepsica]

Quoting SurrogacyIndia:

We are a Surrogacy agency based in Chicago specializing in Surrogacy in India, which professionally deals with surrogate moms, egg donors, and IVF clinics, We are a one stop to any intended parent(GLBT)friendly. We at Surrogacy Abroad believe that price alone should not be the only reason why you would choose our agency. Our partner clinic has one of the highest rate of IVF success achieved in any ART clinic around the world. You can take a virtual tour of the clinic here. http://kiranivfgenetic.com.  Total cost for surrogacy in India is ($35k)roughly a third of the typical price in the United States. Please visit us on the web www.surrogacyabroad.com
Surrogacy Abroad, Inc. will provide the following services to Client:
1.        Psychological screening fee
2.        Criminal history inquiry fees (Surrogate)
3.        Egg (ovum) donor compensation
4.        4 IVF procedures
5.        All necessary medications to surrogate(s)
6.        Surrogate compensation
7.        Surrogate Food and Boarding
8.        Invasive Procedures Compensation
9.        Non-Accountable, monthly expense allowance
10.       Maternity clothing allowance
11.       Child delivery charges (hospital, doctor,C-Section)
13.       Post delivery charges
14.       Airline tickets From US to Hyderabad, India (two ways). 15.       Airline tickets for the delivery and pickup of the baby.
16.       Hotel and Meals for 15 days for both trips.
17.       Sight seeing for both visits
18.       Car Rental with Chauffer for Clinic visits and shopping. 19.       Immigration File
20.       Birth Certificate

so by charging only $35,000 for the whole thing you are essentially paying the indian woman who carry the baby, what, $3000? bullshit.

[Aileara]

I've deleted that surrogacy advertisement.  I don't traffic in advertising here by companies, especially ones of dubious ethics.  Sorry that slipped through ladies.