Sorry, my point....we are schedulers. Emma is on a schedule to a degree. I wake her at the same general time in the morning. I nap her around the same time. I try to get her to bed around the same time.
The issue is: she takes forever to fall asleep. Like an hour at least. We put her in her room, have an elaborate closing ceremony of book reading and goodnights that last forever-an hour then we leave and her door gets shut (small apt, have to close her door)
Should I feel bad/weird about leaving her in her room alone, playing by herself for an hour or more until she gets sleepy?
She still needs her nap or she's unreasonable near the end of the evening.
Thanks for anyone's input and suggestions.