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Posted by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 12:09 PM
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I've joined a couple of groups that seem like they'd be REALLY awesome...if you could "get in."  You know what I mean?  Like, everyone already knows what's going on in everyone else's lives, so the posts are all full of inside jokes, and it seems like the newcomers never really get responded to.  It feels like being the new kid at the popular girls' table.  No one's "not liking" you, but you don't know how to get a word in, and as such, no one really notices you.

Is this group like that?  I mean, a lot of us have been hanging out here for a good long while, so yeah, we know each other's ins and outs, but I feel like I'm still making new friends in here all the time.  I like to think that the discussions are open to everyone's input, and that people are feeling like their opinions are accepted and respected. 

But, if that's NOT the case...I want to know!

Also, while I've got your attention, I encourage everyone to click on "search posts" and look for the "Question for...." posts (you know, "Question for the Jews," "Question for the lesbians," etc...).  I think that we've learned a lot about each other from those posts, and I'd love to hear the input from people who weren't around when they were originally posted.  ALSO, PLEASE feel free to post your own questions about the cultures and lifestyles represented here!!!!

You have NO IDEA how badly I want some Chili's boneless buffalo wings right now.  OH MY GOD.  Um...digression much?  Sorry.


Posted by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 12:09 PM
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BigMommaJesca
by Group Owner on Feb. 22, 2008 at 12:18 PM
Nevermind.  I bumped all the "question" posts....the search brought up 105 posts, so I fished through them for you.  :-)


CrystalRenee34
by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 12:57 PM
Well i've only been a member for a few days, but so far, i like this group. I don't know anyone, but i'm looking forward to making friends!
mamajill
by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 1:01 PM
hi- I just joined too- and I already had a few nice welcome posts. It is very nice that you asked. I think once we (the new members) see a discussion topic we feel strongly about and start answering posts, it will fall into place.
At least I hope.
I know what you mean, though. There are a few groups I feel "in" with and others I feel likle I'm at the looser lunch table.
brookmomto3
by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 1:02 PM
Not that I'm like BRAND new or anything, but I'm newer I guess. But, when I first joined I felt so totally welcomed and like I could just jump right in with my question, thoughts, and feelings. I love this group!
Joanna2202
by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 1:48 PM
I just recently joined also and I feel very comfortable here.  Everyone seems really welcoming and kind.  Looking forward to getting to know you all!
chipper87
by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 2:56 PM
im not NEW  really either, but im sooo comfy here, i only felt new for like a day, then i felt at home....... thanks!!!
BigMommaJesca
by Group Owner on Feb. 22, 2008 at 3:55 PM

I'm so glad you guys feel that way!  If anyone else DOESN'T feel that way, though, feel free to speak up!

CrystalRenee, what are you talking about?  You know ME! :-)


Sykd
by on Feb. 22, 2008 at 5:27 PM
I joined a few days ago, but so far I haven't felt left out. I'd like to make some friends though !
luvu410
by on Feb. 25, 2008 at 4:24 PM
I think this group is Awesome, and friendly. I've never felt left out. Not even when I was new :) I know what you mean about not getting noticed in posts. That's never happened to me here.
Janaki
by on Feb. 25, 2008 at 4:27 PM
I'm new, and I don't think this group is like that. I think this group is pretty welcoming of new members and has some topics that seem pretty open and easy to get involved with. In fact, the reason I joined was because of a topic I saw on the groups homepage.

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