Need advice quick!

[BigMommaJesca]

Help a sister out.

[alwaysmom98]

:) Hugs!!

[dezandry]

I'm sorry Jess..thats a tough one.

I think really you need to talk to both of them. First as far as the friend goes, think if you want to continue the friendship you need to talk to her about feeling left out she is your friend, but it sounds to me she has other motives, but it takes two, that is why I think you should talk to your hubby about the way you feel...i think it is his job to say something if she is acting inappropriate to him..this is only allowing her to flirt more.

please let us know how it goes. we are here for you.

take care, ~Desi

[CrystalRenee34]

Follow your intuitions.  They are almost ALWAYS correct Jess!

[dezandry]

Intuition is always correct, it is only when you start second guessing and thinking about thing that is when you start being wrong. Don't question your feelings, they are the way you feel, and are hard to ignore. trust ur gut and your judgement..this just prooves you do love and care for your hubby and i hope all goes well for you.

Please let us know how you are doing

Quoting CrystalRenee34:

Follow your intuitions.  They are almost ALWAYS correct Jess!

 

[BigMommaJesca]

Quoting dezandry:

Intuition is always correct, it is only when you start second guessing and thinking about thing that is when you start being wrong. Don't question your feelings, they are the way you feel, and are hard to ignore. trust ur gut and your judgement..this just prooves you do love and care for your hubby and i hope all goes well for you.

Please let us know how you are doing

Quoting CrystalRenee34:

Follow your intuitions.  They are almost ALWAYS correct Jess!

 

Things have mostly settled down with regard to this situation.  I no longer think the girl is trying to take my man, but I HAVE decided that she's really annoying and I don't like her in my house anyway.

In other news, I told Brandon last night that I'm leaving.  We're getting a separation.  This situation with this girl was merely a drop in the bucket, and not even the last drop.

[imannieeggplant]

Oh Jess -

I'm sorry that things have gone this way for you.  I'll be sending warm thoughts and vibes your way.

[BigMommaJesca]

Quoting imannieeggplant:

Oh Jess -

I'm sorry that things have gone this way for you.  I'll be sending warm thoughts and vibes your way.

Thanks, I need it.  This really sucks.

Yesterday, he went out with the girl I was talking about in the original post.  I really hope that's not a sign of things to come.  I'm so mad at them both.

[dezandry]

aww jess i'm so sorry this is all happening. I hope things will work out though, and that you two will be more of friends because really he needs to be there for his girls. It must be hard when friends betray you like that...you have to stay strong you will get through this.

Quoting BigMommaJesca:

 

Thanks, I need it.  This really sucks.

Yesterday, he went out with the girl I was talking about in the original post.  I really hope that's not a sign of things to come.  I'm so mad at them both.

[Rachael]

OMG Jess that is awful, how dare he go anywhere with just her knowing how you feel.  I do not care if it is innocent or not.  He is very disrespectful pulling that crap with how it is making you feel.  {HUGS}  We are here for you friend!

[alwaysmom98]

I'm sorry you have to deal with all of this! Take care of yourself. Hugs