I've finally decided to take the steps to get the divorce finalized with my husband. I haven't really ahd the money but now I don't care and I"m willing to sacrifice getting Mcdonalds at lunch for a few weeks. LOL.
Now here is the thing. Awhile back he got with this girl that had two children and one on the way. I had no problem with that. Soon they were arguing all the time and having issues with eachother. I was starting to feel a little uncomfortable about her being around them. He moved in with her and her children. Thats fine too. Yes I admit I was a little jealous that he could just jump into whatever he wanted and got away with everything that he got away with and I was stuck at my parents house because I was struggling every week. He didn't pay child support and still doesn't.
Later they had some issues and he actually called the police on her because she threatened to come after me at work and his "girlfriend" in another town. She also threatened to go after his truck and smash it with a baseball bat... hmm.... There is a police report and everything on this now.
He broke up with her and he had my daughter from one woman to another. Always around different girls. I was getting aggitated. Then this last weekend he took her and I couldn't get ahold of him all day sunday and I am freaking out because I want to know where my daughter is. The night before when he picked her up he told me he had been laid off from his job and after thinking about it he looked pretty glassy eyes (pills). Sunday when I finally got ahold of him he told me that he stayed at yet another girls house and had his phone shut off so no one could bother him. That really bothered me. She is my daughter. I have a right to know what is going on. Then come to find out the next day his mom calls me and tells me that he is back with the girl that threatened to come after me at work... WHAT??? And he had been there all weekend and had lied to me about where she was. Also one of the girls I work with lives in the apartment complex that they now live in and my daughter darted out infront of her car and she almost hit her. And there were no adults around. Just two older kids.
Also he had written on his facebook how he was so messed up on alcohol and pills all weekend and how depressed he was and how he wanted his life to end (I printed all these out). I told his mom that until we went to court and I was forced to let him see her I wasn't going to. His mom agreed with me because he is mentally unstable.
If he gets to see her i want him to see her under supervision only, preferably at his moms house and him not be able to take her from that house. What can I do to make sure I get what I'm trying to get? I'm not doing this to be vindictive. If my child wasn't involved I could care less what he did for the rest of his life. But I'm scared for her safety. What can I do? Any advice that can help me out?